Spell to Get Your Ex Back

This is a very powerful spell. I really can say this with confidence because I personally did this spell over 7 years ago. I was 14 (too young and immature to do a love spell!) and it worked. Really fast actually, too bad I had already moved on… This poor guy was in love with me, but I just did the spell because I was hurting immediately after the break up. He came to me asking me to be with him but he wasn’t the one for me. Long story short – I ended up having some really bad karma and him with a broken heart.

This is why you shouldn’t blindly pursue anything, especially when it comes to potentially hurting another person and/or yourself. But love is never as simple as we would like it to be… right? Take sometime to heal. After a month of no contact if you feel like doing this spell then go ahead but usually we can see things a lot clearer after a month alone. Read this article on what not to do after a break up!

love quotes for your ex boyfriend

Please let me be a warning to you! Don’t play with other peoples emotions. I  got some karma back for that (really.. read about karmic debts) and I should have. If you aren’t sure you want to be with this person then try a spell to find true love. If he comes back into the picture on his own, then you know.  Out of all the witchcraft spells for love on this website, I was a little worried about putting this one up. But you guys are always asking for more love spells and I have received at least 1000 emails asking for help getting their ex. I hope this one works for you as well as it worked for me!

Spell to Get Your Ex Back

witchcraft spells for love

What You Need for this spell:

  • green candle
  • white candle
  • blue candle
  • red candle
  • star oil
  • a photo of you
  • a photo of your ex
  • paper clip

This is a simple spell. It should be done on a Friday, the traditional day for casting love spells. Meditate on you and your ex meeting again. Meditate and visualize on every detail of your meeting, what are you wearing, what are you thinking, how do you have your hair and/or make up? Envision how the meeting would go from there. Do you exchange numbers and say goodbye until later? Do you add him on Facebook? Does he add you? Feel those feelings of it already have happened.

Raise energy and charge each candle.  Anoint each charged candle with star oil. (I make my star oil which you can buy!! You can use attraction oil instead!) Place the charged and blessed candles in a diamond. A lot of the comments ask what I mean by a diamond and LadySheba explains it the best:

What she means is putting the candles in their elemental spaces which should shape a diamond. Red=Fire=South; Green=Earth=North; Blue=Water=West; White=Air=East

If that doesn’t help then please spend sometime reading a bit more. We are all new to the path but just like you used Google to get to this page, you can used Google for basic freaking information!!!! Take a little initiative and learn about the craft. You just want it to be handed to you?? Who has time for that? :/ ANYWAYS!!! Here is what you do;

Light the white candle and stay:

“Mother Air he is mine”

Light the green candle and stay:

“Mother Earth in earth and time”

Light the red  candle and stay:

“Mother Fire our passion unites us”

Light the blue candle and stay:

“Mother Water clear the way, this is a must”


These words are a guide. You can rewrite your own words or chant and it will probably be better for you to do so. 🙂 Place a photo of your ex and your photo. Clip in place with the paper clips. Make sure your photos are face to face. This is to have them constantly or just thinking about you.

Place the photos in the center of the diamond.

Meditate further on your love. When you ready release the energy and snuff the candles.

Imagine the candle smoke moving with the energy into the universe.  Place the photo in the bottom of your underwear drawer and forget about it! Your lover should be returning you soon.

This spell is really simple and I personally know it to be effective. Want to retrieve a lover without doing the magick? Check out this site.

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