Spell to Get Your Ex Back

This is a very powerful spell. I really can say this with confidence because I personally did this spell over 7 years ago. I was 14 (too young and immature to do a love spell!) and it worked. Really fast actually, too bad I had already moved on… This poor guy was in love with me, but I just did the spell because I was hurting immediately after the break up. He came to me asking me to be with him but he wasn’t the one for me. Long story short – I ended up having some really bad karma and him with a broken heart.

This is why you shouldn’t blindly pursue anything, especially when it comes to potentially hurting another person and/or yourself. But love is never as simple as we would like it to be… right? Take sometime to heal. After a month of no contact if you feel like doing this spell then go ahead but usually we can see things a lot clearer after a month alone. Read this article on what not to do after a break up!

love quotes for your ex boyfriend

Please let me be a warning to you! Don’t play with other peoples emotions. I  got some karma back for that (really.. read about karmic debts) and I should have. If you aren’t sure you want to be with this person then try a spell to find true love. If he comes back into the picture on his own, then you know.  Out of all the witchcraft spells for love on this website, I was a little worried about putting this one up. But you guys are always asking for more love spells and I have received at least 1000 emails asking for help getting their ex. I hope this one works for you as well as it worked for me!

Spell to Get Your Ex Back

witchcraft spells for love

What You Need for this spell:

  • green candle
  • white candle
  • blue candle
  • red candle
  • star oil
  • a photo of you
  • a photo of your ex
  • paper clip

This is a simple spell. It should be done on a Friday, the traditional day for casting love spells. Meditate on you and your ex meeting again. Meditate and visualize on every detail of your meeting, what are you wearing, what are you thinking, how do you have your hair and/or make up? Envision how the meeting would go from there. Do you exchange numbers and say goodbye until later? Do you add him on Facebook? Does he add you? Feel those feelings of it already have happened.

Raise energy and charge each candle.  Anoint each charged candle with star oil. (I make my star oil which you can buy!! You can use attraction oil instead!) Place the charged and blessed candles in a diamond. A lot of the comments ask what I mean by a diamond and LadySheba explains it the best:

What she means is putting the candles in their elemental spaces which should shape a diamond. Red=Fire=South; Green=Earth=North; Blue=Water=West; White=Air=East

If that doesn’t help then please spend sometime reading a bit more. We are all new to the path but just like you used Google to get to this page, you can used Google for basic freaking information!!!! Take a little initiative and learn about the craft. You just want it to be handed to you?? Who has time for that? :/ ANYWAYS!!! Here is what you do;

Light the white candle and stay:

“Mother Air he is mine”

Light the green candle and stay:

“Mother Earth in earth and time”

Light the red  candle and stay:

“Mother Fire our passion unites us”

Light the blue candle and stay:

“Mother Water clear the way, this is a must”


These words are a guide. You can rewrite your own words or chant and it will probably be better for you to do so. :) Place a photo of your ex and your photo. Clip in place with the paper clips. Make sure your photos are face to face. This is to have them constantly or just thinking about you.

Place the photos in the center of the diamond.

Meditate further on your love. When you ready release the energy and snuff the candles.

Imagine the candle smoke moving with the energy into the universe.  Place the photo in the bottom of your underwear drawer and forget about it! Your lover should be returning you soon.

This spell is really simple and I personally know it to be effective. Want to retrieve a lover without doing the magick? Check out this site.

Did you try any of out witchcraft spells for love? Have a question or comment? Leave it below! Submit your spell or article to the site and receive a candle set if its posted!



  1. Janet says

    Hello Lady Raven:

    I did this yesterday and hopefully did it correctly. Wish me luck. I have been trying to reach out to him since we broke up. Should I stop and wait for him to contact me?? And can I also do the “contact me chant” on your page simultaneously ??

    Please advise.

    Thank you

  2. Anonymous says

    Hello Lady Raven Moon:
    I did the spell last night. Wish me luck. As you have warned about love spells but I had no choice. I really love this man. We’ve been together for 7 years. We had our ups and downs like every relationship. I love him and I always have. He broke up with me without giving me any reason. So I did the spell cause I need him. I wanted to know is that am I suppose to stay away from contacting him after performing the ritual? Please advise.


  3. Jacky says


    Can i use white candle instead of green and blue. I am unable to find equal sized green candle aswell blue candle..

    • says

      Merry Meet and thank you for visiting Just Wicca!

      You can always enhance this spell by adding your own elements or substituting hard to get items.

      Magick is so personal and it works off the energy of the host -you.

      Please make this spell your own and let us know how you changed it and how it worked for you!

      Thank you for stopping by and Blessed Be!

      PS. Find more information on the Witchcraft Forum – after 7 posts you get a free crystal :) Just use the contact form with your username and personal information (Name, address and preferred crystal:)

      • says

        I want my ex back he said we fought to much, but he loved me “Ex forgive you & return” spell you stated you have these ingredients how where can I buy what site?

      • says

        Hi I just did this spell this evening I really hope it works I love my boyfriend so much I need him to com back to me he left m in January bc of some stupid fights we were meant to be everything was perfect we were perfect for each other pray for me for him to come back he has a lot of influences from there not to from others that don’t know how we are & how much our relationship meant & means to me I treated him so well he was a good man we just had some obstacles in our way he doesn’t do well with stress please pray for us I will let you know how it goes tonight was a full moon so I hope he heres my plea for him to co e back to me
        Thank you
        Christine-believer in true love meant to be destiny

  4. Anonymous says

    how can i do this spell?any candle can do with out charged?i want to learn please help how to this spell.what if no star oil?any oil can substitue to the start.please help me.thank you.

  5. Anonymous says

    I did this spell as instructed except for two items: 1) I couldn’t find star oil so I used lilac essential oil and 2) as recommended, I added to the chant to make it my own as I lit the candles. So, I did this on Friday night and four days later (Tuesday), my ex contacted me asking to see me tomorrow night, he apologized and expressed a desire to work things out.

    We broke up a little over a month ago and our last contact was a text message stating that it was truly over and that was two weeks ago to the day.

    I thought I would be ecstatic to hear from him but I’m not. Don’t get me wrong–I’m happy and grateful he contacted me because it gave us the opportunity to talk about where and why things fell apart. I’m just apprehensive about trying to work things out for fear that the relationship will end again. I honestly do not want to go through the emotional roller coaster again.

  6. christen says

    Hi lady raven.. Can you just cast a spell for me so i can get my boyfriend back.. I know he still loves me that is what he said but he broke up with me he choose the other because i am far he is in okinawa and im in the philippines.. I do not have money for witches and crafts but i am hoping i can have him back.. The girl he is going out works in a bar we have together for 1 and a half year and he left me in just 4 days because he said he met another girl.. I am really sad now.. I never thought he would replaced me with a girl he just met in 4 days if he goes back and visit me i promise i will marry him just like he wants.. You may say i am desperate, yes i am, because we already have plans.. And they are going to have a date on monday.. I am afraid i will loose him for good.. Please help me.. My everyday is a mess.. And it might be better to die than feel this pain continuously.. Please help me.. I will be waiting for your reply.. Thank you..

  7. Deep_Siren says

    I must say trufully I do have faith with this spell. This is my fist spell that I have preformed, and that I did it on a early Friday morning. (Background) him and I had broken up since December (8 months now) and i preformed the spell (last friday) as ordered with makin my own star oil, correct placement and color of candels, I worked with different sizes and charged them all. By early afternoon I actually heard back from after not had speaking to him for a month and a half. He has not shown any signs of wanting to get back together (yet, fingers cross) but I still have faith.

    My question though, I had forgotten about the spell for a few days or atleast tried, could I preform the spell more than once? Atleast is it wise/alright to? Or would trying to forget and let it happen be more of a better answer?

  8. nikki says

    Hi ..
    its been a week since i performed my spell . it dint work . can any one guide me. i did exactly as written above . And i also felt the positive vibes . did feel good . but its been a week now and no sign from his end . i am going crazy. miss him so bad . need him in my life.

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