Spell to Make Someone Think of You

This a spell to make someone think you. This spell is best done on a Wednesday during the waxing moon. If the full moon falls on a Wednesday this spell will be even more potent and effective. This spell seems to work well for most people who try it. I have not tried this spell personally, but as always will try to answer your questions as best I can. :)

What You’ll Need:

  • red candle (if you don’t have a red candle a white one will do)
  • cherry incense blend
  • picture of the person (if you don’t have a picture of the person and can’t get access to one, write the persons name on a white slip of paper and while looking at the paper visualize the person with clarity, and intense focus.

On Wednesday night at 11pm charge you candle with your intentions. Imagine the person thinking of you non stop, during the day, and at night. Imagine them seeing you in their dreams (you might want to send them a message). Imagine them thinking of you while at school and work. See them noticeably distracted. See their thoughts of you swimming in their heads. Tell them what you want them to think.

Light the incense and the red candle. Lie on the floor and imagine yourself going into their brain. Imagine yourself as them thinking the thoughts. You are placing these thoughts into their head.  If you are doing this correctly you will feel a tingling sensation in your head. This is your connection. Hold the picture of the person and say the following:

“Lady and Love, Hand in Hand

Your thoughts are in my command

In all you do and all you see

Only and Always think of me”

Place the picture of the person under the burning red candle. Afterwards spend sometime meditating on the thoughts you want in there head playing over and over like a recorder. If you can do this until the candle burns out then fine. You may want to sit the candle by your bed and meditate on the persons thoughts until you fall asleep.

The person should not only start to think of you constantly but will also dream of you!





Written by: LADY RAVEN MOON
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58 Responses to “Spell to Make Someone Think of You”

  1. Jenny says:

    How do you ‘charge’ a candle? Or ‘cast’ a circle?

  2. Zaphod says:

    Am I able to do this spell on other days of the week?

  3. gloriam says:

    thanks so much!

  4. Rayen says:

    hey, i have a question if u do tgis spell, will the person think of u and only u? like will they be able to concentrate on other things because i dnt want them to not b able to do other things.. i jus want them to think of me alot… if that makes sense.

  5. Daphne says:

    Anyone tried it ?Did it work out fine?

  6. cmf says:

    Is there any other incense we could use besides cherry? I tried searching high and low for some and cant find any.

  7. Roz says:

    Hi Lady Raven,

    Can i use wild cherry bark instead of cherry incense? And how do i burn cherry bark?

  8. tatiana says:

    Do you have to.use the incense?

  9. Melanie says:

    Hi, for this spell, do you need to use the cherry incense? Can you use a different scent incense?

  10. pari says:

    hi………can we purchase candles and other material from any store.

  11. em says:

    Sadly spells like this don’t work always I’ll be with the 1 we truly loved
    And if you have to use a spell on somebody then they never really were yours anyway

  12. Tricia says:

    I was amazed at how well thus spell has worked as i was
    Charging my candle and meditating I felt the energy flowing it was so strong I have done this spell once before but the results took a little longer and I did not feel as much energy as I did last night, the night of the full moon. I am very new to wicca this is only the second time I have ever done a spell. But I will never forget all the enegy I felt

  13. Tricia says:

    I forgot to mention I received my answer the next day

  14. noor says:

    Hi where can I find cherry incense blend

  15. Hien says:

    Would this work even if a person is always busy a lot of the time? Thank u

  16. Lady Soul says:

    I did this spell last night. I could feel the energy in the room as I was meditating on the thoughts. I hope it works :)

  17. Nella says:

    I did the spell last night and been doing other spells from the last couple of days but nothing is working, any reason why? I felt the energy ..i do feel his presence but still no contact…why?

  18. Carissa says:

    I was wondering if you can do this spell before doing a love spell on the same person ? I think that getting someone to think about me more often would help with a future love spell. Also can I use nag chamba as my incense ?

  19. Minerva says:

    HI. what if i cant find a cherry incense blend? is it really necessary to have incense?

    thanks so much,

  20. Amy says:

    I just wanted to know if I had to use the cherry incense, I can’t find it anywhere.. I have another incense at home it’s a lavender one

  21. Pearl says:

    Ok I’ve always believed in magic but just have problems believing that it can be found this easily today. Like its rare to find true magic anymore. But am willing to believe anything is possible.

    Here is my story and please let me know which spell you recommend. Ill do the research of finding the oils and and keep an eye on when the moon is where it needs to be on a specific day. I just need the right spell and terms of when and how the moon should be. Full moon or Luna? Sorry I’m new to this.
    Ok here I go. I was in a relationship for 6 months and was the first time I fell in love fast and hard regardless what my instincts told me. I was a rebond girl and believed his lies that he loved me. Usually not that gullible. But I fell for him. We broke up and stayed friends which was my worst mistake because I tried blocking my feelings for him but it just made him want to challenge that. So I guess you can say friends with benefits really. Me fighting not to let him hurt me again like when we broke up and him noticing I was kind of detaching my feelings from him even as friends with benefits and it was a challenge to want to mess with my emotions to try and get me to drop my guard. I still love him and in the back of my mind wondered what would have happened if we were together as a couple and because I’m an idiot imagine us in love like he so made me believe. More a daydream if we were had a future. Together.

    But I noticed he is with another girl and they seem so happy together which I would never want to hurt him or ruin anybody’s happiness. I’m actually happy for them even if it still kinda hurts.

    The problem / twist and where I need advice in for a spell. So while we were friends I decided to stop and move on. He wanted to date a girl while still playing games and I wasn’t going for that. I literally moved on to another state. Lol! Ok well turned out I became pregnant and now I’m on my own. I told him and he brushed it off possibly thinking I was lying. Just answered ok when I told him I wont obligate him but I’m pregnant. Then nothing after that. Maybe 4 months after my son was born he tried friend requesting me. I wanted to see if he’d message me but he never did. Turned out a mutual friend of ours said he broke up with his girl and was just looking for someone to fool around with. Well if he found me he saw a picture with me and my son on the main profile picture. So he should know now for sure. Its been 9 months since my son has been born. My ex is happy in a relationship and all I want is for him to acknowledge that he knows. And at the very least be some what involved. Even if once a year or him just wanting pictures. Something to show he actually cares. Even if he really doesn’t become involved. Just asking for pictures is enough for me. I don’t care about his money I can take care of us on my own. I’ve never been happier actually. Just wondered if there is a spell to make a father care to acknowledge his child even if its behind close doors. That’s my pathetic story. Yes I’m an idiot for falling for a bad boy. But what’s done is done. And I think its just harder to really stop loving him because I’m so happy for the gift of life I have that I can love unconditionally for the rest of my life. Maybe that’s why I can’t really be mad. Just kinda sad knowing he doesn’t care to even want to know about his son. Knowing I’m not the person to chase him for money or help. I’m happy if he just asks for pictures honestly. Idk please let me know what’s the best spell if there is any.

    Sorry so long,
    Pearl.

  22. leen says:

    does those spells really work or is it just crap

  23. Pearl says:

    So I had asked a question about a month ago and now I can’t see it here anymore. It was in this subject. It was about how to have my ex interested in knowing about his son. Even if it was just asking for pictures. I still love him but I can except that we are seperate for a reason. I just wanted to know if there is a spell for a father wanting to know about his son and if possible care he exist. Even if he’s not in the picture I’d like to know he thinks about him. Even if it’s just asking for pictures. Is there a spell for that?

  24. Locks says:

    The guy I’m casting the spell on is my ex boyfriend. But his just so cold hearted and stubborn. And I don’t think he would let me know his always thinking about me. How can I know I have results?
    Do you really have to use cherry incenses? Will strawberry do?
    I’m also casting a sugar love spell on him. Can it be safe if I cast it in the same day?

  25. Liana says:

    Can I use a red cherry scented candle instead of the cherry incense?

  26. pt says:

    you do well, and do no harm, this should reassure.

  27. awani says:

    hello lady raven,my love is very busy ,and angry with me …he did change his no. also ……. even i mailed him but he is not replying ……help me plzzzzzzzzzz
    witch spell will work on him …..

  28. Roberta says:

    I just started wicca, im a teen and i cant drive so i cant get cerry incense without my mom freaking about me asking her to get it for me… are there any substitutes that would be less awkwoord for me to ask my mom to buy?

  29. Ashley says:

    Im not trying to get him to fall in love with me, I just want his attention. I want him to remember the good things about me and our time together. I want to know if he misses me and if im still apart of his life or not or if he just needs space and will get back to me in due time. That’s all. This isn’t me forcing a love spell right?

  30. Raven says:

    I think this spell is best rather than a love spell. Love is either there or not. In my situation I know this person loves me but he resists. We are kindred spirits and that makes him afraid. But making him think more of me and wanting to spend time with me would be wonderful.

  31. Tarmac64 says:

    Hello – and thank you for all the great information :)

    Just a quick question about the incense – may I substitute the cherry for frankincense or vanilla?

    Thank you!

  32. lover says:

    good evening im from south africa and have tried everything put all my energy in it but doesnt work..help i want my boyfriend back

  33. nichole says:

    how do you know if this spell works?

  34. can i use another incense i cant find cherry incense . and i wanna do it tomorrow night i cant order them .

  35. sam says:

    the last comment is me so please can you tell me

  36. sam says:

    i want to know if i can use another incense i want to do the spell tomorrow night please let me know .

  37. cherry says:

    can I cast this spell and another love spell on the same day?

  38. Angela says:

    Is there anything that can substitute the cherry inscense?

  39. MIVA says:

    To all the people who have problem with the incense.

    Did you even begin to wonder WHY cherry is used? Wicca is all about symbolism, you should know if you want to try a love related spell! Check the meaning of that incense and those with similar meaning are likely to work just as well! I personally am planning to use Rose or Lavender despite having the Rose incense… simply because cherry incense is artificial, while the other two are not. Therefore I feel it might work better this way.

  40. Kate says:

    This spell worked well for me. Just make sure you consecrate and charge your tools. I did this spell once without doing these things. Didn’t work. Once I slowed down, did the steps and truly filled my area with good energy it worked within hours. My ex asked to come over and had the best night of my life.

  41. Adrianis says:

    Apple insence is a happy substitute. And the way you burn cherry bark is by using a coal. you can usually pick those up at any smoke shop that also sell seesha.

  42. Kimmie says:

    I don’t want to infringe too heavily upon someone’s thoughts so I changed up the wording to make it less demanding.

    Do you see this spell as having as many negative or controlling impacts as the love spells?

    • Love spells are complicated energies. I don’t see this spell as being negative.

      • lovelyluck says:

        Hi lady Raven, I was wondering if I could tell you a small bit of my specific story and then you could tell me which spell would be best for my situation? Do you have an email I could email you at? Please ny guidance would be great! :)

        • Thank you!

          TBH I don’t really personally recommend spells.I would suggest looking over the love spells or looking through the book of shadows. Read a few and then meditate on it. The RIGHT spell will pop out to you, like it was sent or written just for you. Get in touch with your intuition and own your power!

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